We are so pleased that you are interested in DeStarte’ and our beautiful wedding venue! We currently offer three wedding packages, all of which include either Vintage or 5’0 round tables, Vintage wooden oak chairs, unlimited assorted floor length colored linens, Bartender, On site Wedding assistant/coordinator, DJ, gate keeper, table top décor, all day access for set up,16 ft. rock fireplace and 6 ft. rock fire pit with wood provided, six hour time frame for decorating/ rehearsal the day before, portrait session, all set up, breakdown and clean up, plus two Bridal cabins to use for the day/night. Numerous areas are available for your ceremony and reception.

Soft ambient overhead lighting is provided throughout the venue with unlimited lighted parking and Handicap access available. Venue owners and Staff are on site at all times for assistance. We are happy to assist you with selections of party buses, floral, officiates, accommodations, and etc. We prefer you choose one of our Preferred Caterers, however we do allow Self- Catering for an additional fee. We do of course allow you to bring your own selection of alcohol.

Our pricing starts at $7995 and increases with additional amenities. A booking deposit of $1500 is required in order to reserve your date. Payments on a scheduled basis are available if desired. We work by appointment only and would love to set up a time to meet you and your fiancé ‘and any other decision makers that may be involved. Feel free to contact me anytime @ 704-300-8458.

DeStarte’ is a six generation family farm nestled amongst 85 acres of rolling pastures at the base of the scenic South Mountains. Located at the intersection of Hwy.’s 18 and 27 in Toluca, DeStarte’ is only a 20 minute drive from Shelby, Cherryville, Lincolnton, Hickory, Morganton, and the like. We are located only 45 minutes from Charlotte and Gaffney, SC.

The DeStarte’ Wedding Barns’ rustic yet elegant charm makes it a perfect location for a farm wedding, be it simple or extravagant in nature. We can accommodate large groups or small intimate ones. You are limited by only your imagination as to what your wedding will be here at DeStarte’!

The Guest House and our two cabins can easily accommodate up to 18 overnight guests. Brunch, bridal luncheons, and picnics can all be arranged as part the particular package you choose. To maintain and preserve its authentic farm atmosphere this facility chooses to accommodate only one event per week.
Our staff and vendor team at DeStarte’ are dedicated to making your wedding day one that is relaxed, wonderful, and forever special. You will LOVE your wedding here at DeStarte’!!!


“Billy and I love being in nature so it fit perfectly for us to choose an outdoor venue. But not just any outdoor venue! We wanted something that was beautiful, charming, and rustic. When Billy found DeStarté online, we were both blown away by how green and lush and woodsy it was. Turns out it was perfect for planning from far away– DeStarté not only had all the tables and chairs we needed, they had tons of decorations for use on site (hundreds of mason jars, mercury glasses, lanterns, etc!). The best part for us was that we had the entire Bed and Breakfast available to us all weekend. Since the majority of our wedding party was flying in from the west coast or New York, it was wonderful to be able to allow them and their families to stay on site all weekend for free. And it was really fun too! Our experience at DeStarté was above and beyond our expectations. The family who owns and runs it were such a joy to work with and so incredibly helpful.”



Cinderella Wedding 

Have you always dreamed of arriving at your ceremony in a horse-drawn carriage? Let us show you all the ways we can make your special day just what you’ve always dreamed of.


 Country Chic Wedding

Want to have your wedding remembered as a fun country gathering? Destarte is full of Southern charm. With mature pines surrounding the authentic barn, it is not hard to create an elegant space for your loved ones to enjoy a casual evening.